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Are You or Were You a Gonner?

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A new book called “Already Gone” reveals startling, new statistics about the growing irrelevance of American Christianity for younger people. There are solutions, however.
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I just read the book Already Gone: Why your kids will quit church and what you can do to stop it by Ken Ham and Britt Beemer. In it, Ken Ham and marketing researcher Britt Beemer seek to understand the plight  of American Christianity as we see more and more young people leaving the church, and in most cases, never returning. They do some exhaustive surveying of those who have left the church and discover some startling statistics.

Of the kids raised in a Bible-based church interviewed who no longer attend church regularly:1

  • 95% attended through middle school,
  • 55% attended through high school,
  • only 11% attended through college.

It means 90% were Already Gone by the time of college!

From their findings, much of this loss is due to doubts these students have about the Bible. In addition, about two-thirds of the youth leave the church by the time they are a young adult.  Their exhortation is for the church to wake up and be the church (body) it was intended to be, faithfully adhering to and teaching from the authoritative Scriptures in a way that is relevant (defensible) to culture and history.

There is much that I think is very true and that I agree with:

  • The dismal state of the church in America and how it is losing it’s youth
  • How the authority of the Word has disintegrated in the church today
  • The church really can’t change culture (105)
  • Music is a minor element to the church at best – truth is relevant and needs to be the emphasis (110). In fact, much of the emphasis and approach for music in the church has no Biblical basis at all (127).
  • Hypocrisy and the institutionalizing of church is a major reason why young people leave (110ff)
  • The need for more interactive ways of teaching the truths of Scripture and apologetics, e.g., small group settings (125ff), similar to the early church
  • Focus on youth and young adults (135) — in fact a major priority should be to equip and let them lead and reach out to their own generations (160-161)
  • The need for revolution (141)
  • The opportunity to win some of those back who have left the church
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I applaud the authors for their uncompromising view of Scripture as authoritative and the need to quit being lame in the way it is presented or glossed over in favor of “worship”.  I also appreciate their candor and critique of the way we do church. Not only the worship service but also Sunday school — which is not getting the job done.

The modern emphasis on Bible stories and entertainment rather than the real and historical Bible undoubtedly plays into the doubts raised in the minds of teenagers and young adults who encounter sophisticated arguments in school. They also properly cite the reliance on Sunday school to be the source of Bible teaching, while leaving the Bible out of the home.

The Young Earth Problem

However, I must disagree with the Young Earth view advocated by the authors and a missing element to their view of reaching the younger generation.2

First, their emphasis on a Young Earth apologetic overshadows much of the good things they have to say. They might argue such a view fails to uphold the historical truth of the Bible.

But the Scriptures do not mandate a Young Earth view. There are several, valid interpretations of creation account in Genesis 1 which do not hold that “days” refers to 24 hour periods.3  It may be true that science has influenced these alternative interpretations, but the interpretations are still sound.

The fact is that Genesis 1 compresses all the vastness of creation into one page with few details, but what details are given are highly compatible with what little is known from science. The point of Genesis 1 is to explain the creation and fall of humanity and how God is dealing with it, and it is not an attempt to explain everything about creation.

There is a need for effective teaching and training in handling the God’s Word accurately, as well as understanding modern skeptic’s assault on the historical reliability, inspiration and veracity of Scripture. But Genesis 1 really is not the biggest stumbling-block, as the authors believe, and there are several reasonable answers which resolve this issue.

But other issues are far more common and hit at the heart of people’s antagonism towards Scripture, God, and/or the church history, and these require intelligent defense. Some of these issues were was addressed  in Chapter 6 of their book, but they truly require a much bigger stage.  (I’m curious if the age of the universe is something we could “agree to disagree” on. I could easily do so, but the Young-Earth apologetic appears to be so foundational in their view, I’m just not sure.)

Missing the Point

The book is missing or under-emphasizing significant reasons for the exit young people from Christianity. Most notably, the church is not merely an agent of teaching and emphasizing truth, even though this is important. But Jesus came to earth for a purpose: the ministry of reconciliation to the world. Christians are to be God’s ambassadors in this cause, which is a great purpose.

When young people find a worthy purpose, their faith becomes much more relevant. Since Already Gone lacks an outward focus to reach the lost, the book really fails to address this vital issue.

“Speaking the truth in love” (Eph. 4:16)  requires balance and proper emphasis on both issues.  We are surrounded by people who need to see and experience the love of God in the church, people who are touched by the gospel in a life-giving way, and not merely “converted”. The authors touch this at the end by saying students can be equipped to reach their own generation, but this “ministry of reconciliation” is so much more than that.

For the young, most churches seem stifled by institutionalized, worship service-oriented practices. Students need the experience of the living Body Of Christ where they can learn to wield the Scripture with competency. The real love relationships which should be evident among Christians are seen by the world, people are drawn to Christ and that age group turns from  a declining population to one of vibrant growth.  This remains the greatest hope for younger generations, bar none.

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Footnotes:

  1. Their surveys were of kids raised in churches who are now “20-something”. []
  2. When trying to show how far things have gone astray, their examples overly emphasize the decay of a Young Earth view of the world with those who have left the church. For example, when listing the negative beliefs of those who attended Sunday school and now have left the church, six of the sixteen characteristics  (more than a third) dealt directly with a view contrary to the Young Earth position. []
  3. The account of Genesis 2 where man is created followed bya the population of the garden with foliage, with animals, the naming of the animals, followed by the formation of woman out of man took longer than 24 hours of Day 6 in Genesis 1:24ff. Some claim that Eve was within Adam on the 6th Day (positionally or metaphorically) and was brought out later (on the Eighth day?), but this seems as much of a “reading into the text” as saying that the days of Genesis 1 could be very long periods of time. See Gleason Archer’s A Survey of Old Testament Introduction for different views of the interpretation of “day” in Genesis 1. []

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11 Responses to "Are You or Were You a Gonner?"

  1. Thomas Hocker says:

    I may be in the dark ages, but c 14 dating found to be totally inaccurate, which some adhere to?

    1. Greg says:

      Thomas, sure there are some innacuracies w/C14 data as with many measurement techniques (but C14 dating really is not the dating technique to be concerned with because it’s only good to about 50K or 60K years anyway – not even relevent to earth that’s billions of years old). However, there is so much evidence (expansion of universe, sediment formation, coral formation, other dating techniques, cosmic background… ) that points to approx 12 billion year universe and 4+ billion year earth. There are arguments against those too, but they are not that convincing.

      Just for the sake of argument, let’s say the earth is only thousands of years old (which I don’t think is the case), do you think that would be the thing that Christ would say to emphasize?

      1. Thomas Hocker says:

        not at all. lets stick to what is really important. The gospel, power of God for salvation! Oh, Thanks for the information on C14 dating and other techniques. Most people I have talked to about science and God circle around to the real problem they have with the idea of God is a moral one, where none of us measure up. Thanks again!

  2. Branda Szoke says:

    Hi – It’s great to find such interesting insights on the Web as I have been able to fiind here. I agree with most of what is written here and I’ll be coming back to this site again. Thanks again for posting such great reading material!!

    1. greg says:

      Brenda, thanks.

  3. Ben says:

    I was one of these kids, but it was 20 years ago when I was slowly walking away from church. As usual the church is waaaay behind the curve.

    I’ll admit that the creation account was a stumbling block to my believing. It was much less of a hot-button issue back then and people seemed far less dogmatic about it (I think Ken Ham stresses it because it gets people buying his product.) I had some good explanations offered to me by intelligent leaders who showed me it wasn’t so black and white as it appeared superficially. And it was no “hill to die on” rather it was a mysterious thing but an irrational belief.

    The REAL break for me and the Church was this: if what Jesus says IS true, as Christians claim, then it IS the most important thing in the world. Why were so very few of the adult Christians around me treating it that way? Why was it a Sunday morning thing that didn’t spread into their whole lives? To BECOME a Christian you have to admit you’e a sinner; then you have to spend the rest of your life acting like you aren’t? Seemed like a fake way to live.

    Now that we’re at it: Why was the youth pastor paid slave wages?!?!?!!!! Why not just go all the way and say “oh, that’s not a real job.”

    Those were the things that confused me, that the “Christian” value system/lifestyle/worldview around me was the opposite of what it should have been. Shallow, selfish and dishonest, just like the world around it. Thank God for the guys who WERE in there swinging the bat for Christ and Truth, they did so much to combat the inevitable cynicism just by being there and serving Jesus where I could see them.

    20 years ago was probably the beginning of the church’s slide into crass consumerism, feel-good Christianity, and the music-stressed worship service. So now we’re seeing the results of watering everything down and being totally irrelevant to real life, with it’s pain and suffering and trouble. And the kids bail–drugs and therapy work better than Churchianity.

    Christ never forsook me, though, and did lead me as an adult to a church where I could learn and grow and know him better and have relationships where conflicts are resolved and we encourage each other to be transparent and honest. I hope we can be real and relevant to the kids we’re raising up.

    1. Ben says:

      Sorry, in my first paragraph I meant “a mysterious thing but NOT an irrational belief” OOPS!

    2. Smooth Jazz says:

      Now that we’re at it: Why was the youth pastor paid slave wages?!?!?!!!! Why not just go all the way and say “oh, that’s not a real job.”

      Dude, that’s a real good question, and it’s a travesty we relegate the youth to the back burner like that.

      Thanks for sharing your story. It’s cool to hear how it worked out.

    3. greg says:

      Ben, thanks for your story. It’s cool you’re back in a Body of Christ and growing…

      Amen to the lack of emphasis in xianity towards youth work! It’s like people are trying to preserve a form of xian worship for older adults that can only decay as xians get older and die themselves (to live a new life) — all the while we who are older could be investing in the field that is ripe (youth) for harvest.

  4. Harry says:

    Greg:

    The author’s contention that the Evangelical church is losing the battle this generation is in agreement with other authors (Christine Wicker’s The Fall of the Evangelical Nation; Josh McDowell’s The Last Christian Generation; George Barna’s research, just to name a few).

    I have to admit that I am a bit shocked that Ham and Beemer believe that not holding to a Young Earth view is a key reason for a loss of the the churched youth. Having worked with our church’s college ministry for the past 2 years, the issue of creation account in Genesis vs. Science has been a minor issue at best in the discussions we have had with the non-Christians who have been investigating Christianity. Usually the issues that has been major obstacles with non-Christian youth is the notion of absolute truth (real truth) and exclusivity of Christianity.

    With the churched youth in our ministry who have left (including my daughter), I am not aware of the creation account being an issue. Usually it involves desire to dive into the world system in one way or another, or because they don’t see purpose or relevance in Christianity in their lives.

  5. greg says:

    Harry my man, it is bizzarre the “line in the sand” being a young earth view. Sorry to hear about your daughter — will be prayin.

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